I believe her age is an issue. We did set up the visitation and now the balls in her court. My L said if we don't get a response we will file for temp. orders.
In regards to her behavior, that is exactly how she is acting. Like a teenager. Even in arguements she would act childish.
As for OM, he is 36. I'm 40. W is 28. So still not much difference. She is displaying all of her issues loud and clear.