Even if the OM wasn't around, or ever existed, I do not see this ending for quite some time.
WAW, MLC, whatever.
I have chosen (perhaps in error) to take the focus off the OM and see it for the confusion that she is in. This is her journey. I have tried to guide her with the dates/trips, but it isn't my journey.
The correct answer is to do some of what people are suggesting.
Just be the lighthouse for her lost ship.
I might be stubborn and hard-headed, but by talking things out, I usually get to the point where I understand. That is just my personality. I like to throw out lots of scenarios and try to see where they lead before I finally arrive at the best option.
Lighthouses are obsolete buildings often in inaccessible locations.
Better to be an Air Traffic Control Tower.
If you want to read a possible outcome stitch to yours go look up betheman.
Look at his mistakes.
Look at how he justified his mistakes.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!