Even if the OM wasn't around, or ever existed, I do not see this ending for quite some time.
WAW, MLC, whatever.
I have chosen (perhaps in error) to take the focus off the OM and see it for the confusion that she is in. This is her journey. I have tried to guide her with the dates/trips, but it isn't my journey.
The correct answer is to do some of what people are suggesting.
Just be the lighthouse for her lost ship.
I might be stubborn and hard-headed, but by talking things out, I usually get to the point where I understand. That is just my personality. I like to throw out lots of scenarios and try to see where they lead before I finally arrive at the best option.
M-40 W-33 D3, D4, SD13 T 9 YEARS M 5 YEARS ILYBINILWY APRIL 2012