about the crying, I completely understand. You need to learn to parent yourself. Let's say you were single by choice. Are you going to go look for someone to love you? No, the healthy thing to do is to love yourself. I found that keeping in touch with friends fills my cup of love I've made it clear that I need only support and no criticism as to how I'm handling my sitch. AND since my bdays coming up I have schedule bday celebrations iwth people individually
How can friends and family fill your LLs??
Oh n if she never appreciated your acts of service, if that's not her LL and she's asking you cuz she'd rather not pay, then NO don't do it. Have her hire someone or do it herself
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017