This is great YC! I can tell you've given him enough space where he was able to truly reflect on his sitch. It really is just a waiting game. From now on, do as you said, work on yourself. Keep up with the 180s and he will see you are being consistent with your behavior (NO MORE OUTBURSTS!)

(((Hugs)))

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017