One other comment.

I would try again but I gave my conditions in one of my postings (I think Starsky asked...)

H would need to give up the affair and his out of town job. (he's gone at least 5 days a week)

I could forgive the affair if he was willing to do those things and showed me he felt bad.


M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012