Let's set the record clear here. People are construing what I wrote.
I'm not comparing a 15 year m and R to a 3 month R. My point was and is that the LBS need to set there boundaries. They need to know how they would like to be treated from their partner.
This applies to R with familiy members, friends and coworkers.
jks, I think you really need to detach from your H and anything he's doing. You said you fainted while you were outside the house. That's is unhealthy.
Continue to self improve and take care of yourself. If your H decides to work on the M then you have a decision to make when and if that time ever comes. There will come a point when you feel nothing towards him.
Wish him well and happiness. If it is meant to be it will happen.
If he doesn't notice the new you and realize what he is losing, I gaurantee someone else will.
Go out with friends and have fun.
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I do think all ideas should be shared. Because you just never know. It's up to that specific person to choose the way they want to go.
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