What's your gut telling you about the hardwork? How does it make you feel about yourself to step in and do the work? At any point will struggle with the feeling that your W is cake-eating or will you enjoy the opportunity?
No strong leaning either way with me but don't do something that will twist you in knots later on.
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms