Hold. I was never thinking about dating. I think I said I could date, but it would be out of spite only. If I didn't say that, that is what I was thinking.
My goal is to slow down.
Regarding the sleep over, it was rated G. Nothing happened nor did I try to make anything happen.
My W is confused right now. Space and time is what she needs. But the definition of space is key. She wants space from any sort of relationship.
W's friend called me earlier and told me a few things. W says she is having a lot of fun doing things with me. I don't put any pressure on her. It is relaxing. I am respectful of her wishes.
OM isn't talking to her. W is feeling the effects with lower self-esteem. Why am I being rejected... Friend asked W if she was going to call OM. W said no, couldn't say if she would never talk to him again, but right now no. She doesn't want to play games and how I am a straight-shooter. Someone stable she can rely on. Friend says what I am doing is working. Just continue to give her space and don't pressure her when we hang out. She isn't thinking about any R with anyone. She just wants to be for a while.
I told her friend that I was considering doing the same thing and stop talking to the W. Friend quickly said that would be bad right now. She said if things were different, then yes, doing that would get her attention. Do it when things are bad.
M-40 W-33 D3, D4, SD13 T 9 YEARS M 5 YEARS ILYBINILWY APRIL 2012
