didn't mean to imply that YOU failed. Just saying it's not Dobson's approach promoted here. You sound as if you took Dobson's approach and your marriage is over now.
But you seem to be saying you are more at peace, which is worth something.
Since I don't know your sitch I can't say much more than that.
But do you feel YOU have improved as a partner, or grown from all this?
Do you think if your h had returned, you could have maintained those changes OR would you not have been able to get past his affair?
Some folks cannot get past an affair and I don't fault them. I just say "own that" and end it. To me the worst possible choice is to stay married & stay miserable.
What changes have you made in your life that helped you feel happier?
(do you have a thread around here?)
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
