at first I was going to argue w/you b/c this is Div Busting and not Dobson's site. The approaches are different and I wish that WS would get consistent DBing advice
But WS you don't seem able to do DBing and you get angry a lot and lash out and then cry and look weak in front of your w.
So I honestly don't know what to tell you. I posted on your other thread but it's confusing to me b/c I had not seen this post of yours.
Did you really read the DB books?
And Nblost, no offense, seriously--but you're not exactly a marital success story.
What are you saying "Worked" for you?
Final note...even if our m's don't last, or reconcile, it is not "failure."
IMO, DBing is about saving yourself first, then finding that it often saves the m too.
WS, my problem is I don't see either happening in your sitch.
What are your 180s? What type of consistent change, over time, has your w seen in you? I mean, Div Busting only works when we work the DB program.
Why would SHE think marriage to you, now and from this day forward,
be better than before?
If leaving the house is something you think would help, so be it. But see a lawyer first.
Make sure you lose nothing in terms of custody. And can you afford two rents?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
