jks after your reply it made me think. You werent the one who was upset with what I wrote. Until you ask me not to post on your thread, I will offer my 2 cents when I can.
I seen many different approaches work over the past 3 years.
FWIW, it wasn't until my W(at the time) found out I was dating that made her rethink her decision. I think people here should know the truth about what works and what doesn't. The more knowledge one has about saving their M the better.
If a M isn't saved, wouldn't it set peace in the LBS's mind knowing they tried everything to save their M?
Sorry to hijack, jks, but I want to say something.
I personally didn't like the comparison gr8 posted either. I just didn't say anything (my Southern roots...LOL). But I want gr8 to know that just because another poster doesn't agree with your suggestions to a specific person, doesn't mean you shouldn't post to that persn's thread. Unless they specifically ask you not to.
We're all essentially in this together, and while everything won't work for everybody, I do think all ideas should be shared. Because you just never know. It's up to that specific person to choose the way they want to go.
