Good for you, im sure most of us who are apart from their spouses are waiting on that call. I too deal with outbursts and have worked dilligently to ensure they won't happen, but our spouses have to give us the chance to show them that.
Just make sure when you set a goal and especially when you make that goal known to your spouse that you achieve it at all costs. The absolute worst thing that they can see is failure on something as small as a couple of months when their looking toward returning for a lifetime.
