Only you know if you W is drawing closer to you or not, if that is what's happening and it were me I would also be inclined to keep doing what works.
Yeah. Many moons ago I fooled myself with that belief. I wish I had listened to the vets then myself. It wasn't until my own head cleared that I was able to see clearly.
Lost, no one has a magic wand but you will see one day that those who advise you to do things which seem counterintuitive are in fact right.
More often than not posters like you who brush off good advice that comes from experienced vets, prolong their limbo and end up back on forums 6 months down the road with more of the same or worse situations.
Your W is feeding you crumbs while you feed her cake.
She is waiting for your finances to get better before she makes her move to kill.
She is making sure that you have not contacted OM. She does not want anything to go wrong with her plans.
She is making sure that the children are shielded from the direct damage and don't know the whole truth in case there will be custody battle.
She is doing everything that works for her.
Sadly you don't wish to see the big picture. And that is also a part of the script.
