jks after your reply it made me think. You werent the one who was upset with what I wrote. Until you ask me not to post on your thread, I will offer my 2 cents when I can.
I seen many different approaches work over the past 3 years.
FWIW, it wasn't until my W(at the time) found out I was dating that made her rethink her decision. I think people here should know the truth about what works and what doesn't. The more knowledge one has about saving their M the better.
If a M isn't saved, wouldn't it set peace in the LBS's mind knowing they tried everything to save their M?
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