You're in a tough situation man, in that your W is willing to do stuff with you despite what is going on with OM. I know it is hard to turn the other way but as many of the vets are saying that seems to be your likely best way forward at this point. I see you are a couple of months into this. I will share with you that I have been in my sitch for 10 months and found this site 6 months ago. Although I have read the books and listened and understand the DB principles, I haven't applied them effectively and as such have more of less spun my wheels for 6 months. Don't make the same mistake, follow the 37 rules and give her space to miss you and be a man only a fool would leave. The boats we are in are somewhat similar. Good luck and keep your chin up!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
