Yes I have read DB but it has been years.. I went though this exact same thing back in 2009. I need to find my book and dust it off and read up.

Right now I am just trying to watch my actions. It's so hard because I get frustrated and annoyed so quickly. I will be honest, I am also the type of person that if I don't get my way about certain things I am not happy to be around. I KNOW that if I can change me that he will warm up to me more. I personally have a lot to work on with me which I do believe will help with my marriage.