Copied: If She Won't Stop the Affair?

[LostIn407]

It will be the hardest thing to do, but you have to give her the space. She is refusing no contact, so give her space. If you pursue, judge, attack, you will just push her closer to OM.

I am not going to sugar coat it. When you give her the space, she is going to go to him more. Crappy part is that she is going to go to him anyways.

Let the rope go. It will flip the switch on the A from escape to relationship. I would say from experience that this is the key. It is only after you let them go will they begin to see what they are losing.