Then later my W came by our house and she was all decked out in a new dress and looking oh so good. She said she was on her way out to meet up with her group of friends and just wanted to stop and say hello to me. I told her she looked great and she lite up. She does love the attention.
Imagine a world, in which you could STFU, detach while dealing with your crap. Give her time to actually miss you, and that was you, showing up at her door, making her feel that way ????
Not in a way to get her back, just in a way in which you were living YOUR life, not worrying about every little thing she does.