Got some advice yesterday that buying STBX out of the house could cost A LOT less than I thought it would. Going to look into this further, but not tell him so that he'll continue to agree to fixing up the things that we've been told are inspection issues prior to selling.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home