By way of update, my wife has been really stressing yesterday and this morning. She finally told me that she just can't think about our situation because it's too much and said she won't be going with me to our scheduled MC appointment.

Guess I'll go alone, but at this stage she's really the one who needs to have someone help organize these thoughts that are so confusing and stressing to her.

I'm not going to push or insist. Does this spell pretty much the end or should I write it off to a temporary high-stress situation? Should I try harder to get her in to speak with someone? I'm happy to have her speak with someone alone - in fact that might be the best of all.


M = 44
W = 47
Mar = 11 years
T = 12 years
S8, d10, ss22
ILYBINILWY June 26, 2012
I need to be free and live July 10, 2012