Needing some guidance... 5

[gr8 day 2B alive]

if they were only dating a few months, she would not be here on divorce busting.

This cannot be compared to a r without history OR one without children.

I was simply giving her a different perspective. I am not suggesting she goes out and dates. (That's been debating here long ago).
I am suggesting jks finds herself, feels good about the person she is and know what she wants in a R.

It would be great if every here saved their M. It's the common goal and why people are here.

No one has control over their spouses decisions or feelings.

I think when newbies come here they blame themselves and are way too hard themselves.
Yes we make/made mistakes. So did our partners.

I wont post on this thread anymore.

jks, take of yourself, first and foremost. Heal and grow.
gr8