just generally act like its OK for them to have been or in many cases, still are Horse's Arses.
I believe that if the above is the case then they have not really finished their crisis or have some other issues that may not be MLC.
My mother is 79 and has been in some sort of crisis for about 60 years, not all of it has been MLC.
Braveheart I have been reading some of your original threads and have enjoyed the discussion on them.
On this above statement you were a realitive newbie and had only been posting here for about 6 months. The rest of the thread has some very interesting comments on it.
A newbie....... Long time ago! I have changed quite a lot since those days..... As far as the MLCer not finishing the journey, I agree. I don't think most of them are able to finish it for whatever reason. I've been through it twice, my father and I have no relationship and he is all about his wife and her family, and I haven't spoken to my XW in probably 5 years or so. Point is, they just move on instead of addressing and trying to make right the damage they have done to other people. I can give many other examples of people like that. People like Amy, who went through it and tried to make amends are the rarest of the rare here. In all my years here, I have only seen 2 or 3 people like that.
