Kimmerz, Your xh is just a mean soul. He doesn't realize that by doing what he did, his children will be extremely hesitant to tell him anything ever again.
I'm so sorry that you and your daughter had to go through this. Thank goodness you called and explained the situation to the officer.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
