Thanknyou for posting this because I don't think we can fully comprehend how much of a challenge to our pride, ego and pain true forgiveness can be; not that I am even close to that. Where I stand in my sitch right now, yes, I say I have forgiven him, and I do mean it. But if I get the chance for reconciliation i can imagine that forgiveness a takes on a whole new meaning and level of introspection.
LITB you know I cheer loudly for you and your family. You show so much strength and wisdom, confidence and you say it as it is.
Wishing you all the best
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home