Oh I forgot a big part of the story...

I called the Police department and told them what XH had done and that D12 and I didn't want to cause such chaos over it given we weren't sure if it was lost or stolen at that point. I asked them that given XH called them, did we have to file a report or charges. The police department said that they officer wasn't even going to come to the house to take a report until he heard from me as well and wanted to proceed with that. So I told them not to come over and if we felt we wanted to file a report in a few days we'd give them a call.

So XH told me they were coming to the house DEFINATELY, but the police told me the weren't unless I called and agreed to have them come over.

Interesting.


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.