How Should I respond to her advances

[Arsene]

Thx Vero,

I guess that's all out the window now. The other day, as she was chatting with D8 in her own language, she asked her to get me and then switched to English saying the following (which i think was clearly meant as a message for me):

W- i ll tell u a story
W- once upon a time there was a sad scarecrow
W- he was sad because everytime he moved the birds were scared
W- so he stopped moving for a while and the birds came around
W- but then he got tired of not moving
W- so what do you think he should do?
W- he wanted the birds but he wanted to move so he decided
W- sometimes he moved and sometimes he just stopped hehe
W- the end

Me- He could talk to the birds?

W- he cant talk hehe

Me- if a scarecrow can move, surely he can talk?

W- hehe mine is mute

Me- or he could just sway with the wind, the way trees do
until the birds get used to him

W- (change topic)


Then today, she dropped another bomb. She's not meeting us at the airport anymore. Something else came up. My D8 was gutted and acted up all day, not knowing how to take this. After 2 months away, you'd think that this might be kind of a priority, wouldn't you? I told W it was ok, that we'd manage and tried not to put any pressure or guilt on her but after having tried all day to calm my girl down, I think she's downright selfish. Don't take me wrong, I'm not giving up but my heat is hardening and I'm having a harder time excusing her behaviour in front of D8. I also feel let down but I guess this just tells me that i should not trust anything she tells me. How do I get through this? Why is it that every time i Think I know what to do and how to behave, she throws something at me to push me off-course?