So I'm thinking there should be some FAQ's as a sticky on this site, because I'm seeing a few questions that might come my way and I'm wondering the best way to handle. I realize every sitch is different so answers would still vary, but as subtle as we can all be once the 180 train starts it's bound to draw notice.
So how about questions like:
So why won't you talk to me lately - so seem so distant?
Why have you been ignoring me lately?
What's with all the new stuff you're getting into? Why?
Those are just a few, but I bet there's a bunch. I almost stumbled with the "I miss talking to you" text today. With these questions, one can't really say "well, I'm applying a technique I read about whereby if I detach from you you'll miss me and realize that you still have a connection...."
So for the "why don't you talk to me" or "why are you so distant" what would be good? I'm thinking along the lines of "I'm giving you space so you can think clearly" or perhaps "I just have a lot of things going on now". I'm such a noob with this, but I can see it coming up. What is the proper method here in a general sense?
Any other FAQ's I should be wary for?
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