If She Won't Stop the Affair?

[wont_stop]

I don't mean to double post, but I'm sitting here with my kids at 10pm and my wife is not here. She was supposed to go swimming with us this afternoon, but said the traffic was too slow. This was as 5:30pm. So she doesn't get to the pool until 7:30, after we left, but enough time to leave things with her mother. So she stays to swim, and I will bet it is with him, and and share the jacuzzi. The pool closed at 9pm, so I wonder what she is doing now.

I am going to keep my temper, I am not going to lose it. I think I will have to just avoid her tonight completely. But how do I handle this, this is soooo out of control. She's completely disrespecting our children, who should have played with her at the pool. She totally oblivious. Why is she so selfish! I know why, but I need to vent. I can't believe my sweet, caring wife has turned into this selfish, uncaring person.

Thanks for letting me burn off some anger, I should be able to handle the rest. But this sure makes it hard for me to want to save this marriage. I just want to hire the lawyers and go after her right now.