Copy and Paste from the newbees and vet "bootcamp" thread. Created new topic per advice from LABUG.
I'm new to posting at this site but have done a lot of reading on various techniques to save a marriage but this one, by far, seem to be the best option for my situation.
I've read DR and I've been working my way through this message board and have gathered a lot of good information. I have done a lot of the self work stuff prior to finding the book. But, I'm having trouble with interaction with my H in stressful situations, it's really hard for me to contain myself, my anger and disappointment. I am losing ground with my H toward reconciliation and now we are at the point of him moving out at the end of the month. He needs space and time (found out move date 7/9/12)
Here are some basics Me:43, H:49, S:6, T:17 M:16, Bomb:1/27/12 a little more than an EA, pretty confident she is out of the picture but...
He's moving out the end of 7/12, not yet asking for a D but I suspect it's coming, he's been walking me down this path very slowly.
Adding to info as of 7/12/12
I didn't respond to the email about the place he wants to rent, too hard. Going to couples session today where I intend to focus on logistics and other stuff. He seem calmer knowing he leaving home in a few weeks. I'm having a hard time with reactions to difficult situations. When I saw him after the email Monday I had a hard time containing my emotions, I could only say I have to leave for a while I'm not sure when I'll be back. Since then I've been able to maintain composure in his presence.
How should I handle providing my "story", it's pretty lengthy and I'm not sure if it would get rejected.
Hoping for help Thank you Lillystillinlove
lillystillinlove M:43 H:49 T:17 M:16 S:6 Bomb: 1/27/12 EA+ with close married family friend / ILYBINILWY H moved out 7/27/12 H is Extremely angry, stressed and unable to forgive
