It’s a great perspective, I would call it a reality check for me. I didn’t come to this board ONLY for support. I want to hear all different views, such as yours. My goal isn’t to have people necessarily agree with me. The take away I got from your posts is it’s important for me to be flexible, understand her concern about roommates, maybe not be so attached to the house, etc…BTW,she’s also on the loan. Great points of view that I need to let sink in.