no...I was kidding because you recently told H to stop telling you how to feel! and then I thought it sounded like the line from dirty dancing nobody puts Baby in a corner.
Guess it didn't come out right.
No I was celebrating with you that you'd stood up to H and said that he shouldn't tell you how to feel and so I joked that I would tell you that you don't need any additional confidence but then I'd be telling you how to feel.