My mistake in this is that I didn't wait long enough before doing things with the W. I thought it was over with OM, so I jumped. My mistake. I was hearing too many things from friends, in-laws, W, etc that the honeymoon was over with OM. I was doing fine and enjoying life for me. I should have waited longer.

Now I am trying to find a way to back out of this before I do more damage.



Honesty is the one thing I trust my W is giving me right now. She isn't hiding anything. If I ask, she tells. I just chose not to ask questions I don't want to hear the answer to.

I know what you are going to say, how she has lied to you before, etc. I believe this honesty.

M-40
W-33
D3, D4, SD13
T 9 YEARS
M 5 YEARS
ILYBINILWY APRIL 2012