I am really feeling like an idiot. Maybe I have been trying to absorb too much advice.
Who is codependent? Me or her? Is it me because she is controlling me when she invites me to do things?
But then I read about detaching and going dark. Wait for your W to invite you to do things, stop the pursuit. Confused how I am supposed to get her to invite me to do things but then her inviting me to do things is bad.
M-40 W-33 D3, D4, SD13 T 9 YEARS M 5 YEARS ILYBINILWY APRIL 2012