Thanks kml for the helpful information. I will be sure to forward it to my dad.

I am away from family, have been most of my married life, being a military wife you kind of get used to it.

My mom wanted me to come home a few weeks ago, to take a break from things here, but she can be demanding and puts stipulations on things ( her and my dad are no longer together).

So I decided to wait. Now I have to decide if I should take a trip home, but then am faced with the idea of him bringing the OW to the house, which he says he won't do, and I know that seems like a silly idea.

I guess I am lucky that I don't live around family, because I know they will bombard me with questions about my marriage- and right now I am just not ready to talk about it really. But then situations like this arise...

I guess if he wanted to bring her to the house he would, although I don't think she has been there. But I guess I can always do a house cleansing or something when I get back, like burn some sage...

Anyway, thanks again for all the info.


M-28
H-28
M-9 1/2 years
T- 12 years
PA- 01/02/12 (still going on)