The Therapist is Pro Marriage....... My H I really do not know what he is thinking now. He does see the Therapist Tonight so hopefully He will give us some "Homework" to work on and we can see some progress somewhere....Whichever way it will go.
I still think if he wanted to leave he would have done it by now. It has been a month since our first talk about all of this and a lot has transpired. The most difficult part for me has been the not knowing where things are headed. I am a planner and a need to know person. So for me to let things go and not react is very very difficult. But I also think by me doing this it is giving him a sense of control which I do not think he had before. But at the same time giving him this control, but still being aware of what is going on.....so I am not blind sided.
