Thank you Lee for the reminder of how important and serious it is for the LD spouse to follow up postponements whether they are in the mood or not.

CeMar: Well, isn't that interesting! When you posted that link earlier in my thread... I clicked it, skimmed over the first paragraph and left. I have never really had a problem enjoying sex (as long as I was participating). Today, for some reason, I decided to read the entire article and must say that it hit home in alot of ways.

Ever since H and I have "wiped our slates clean" - it *feels* like we're back in 1994 (HDs and all! )

I really hope we can continue and feel quite confident that we will. Thanks for your persistence with that link Has your wife read it??

Pam