Quote: I am guilty of the not following through everytime I postponed sex.
I will tell you as a HD person that when you post pone and then don'f follow up. That is absolutely the most damaging thing that happens. We can deal with a no but when some one says not tonight but I will walk you up in the morning and you know what. Then that doesnt happen and you sit and wonder way. Then if this is repeated often. You start thinking wow my Spouse doesn't give a Damn about my needs pretty soon as a HD the resentment starts to set in and it difficult to start taking care of there needs.
