Yes it's perfectly natural. That's why it really is up to you.
My W had a fling with her boss that I had to overcome. I was able to see how strong I was as a human being at that point. Everyone must make their own decision.
Right now I'd pass on resolving the Marriage, but I feel I might after time. But not now for sure. There is no eye contact or communication at all now between us.
M44 / W43 Married 24 / Together 24.5 S12 S7 ILYBNILWY/Bomb: 4-15-2012 Counseling started 5-1-2012 Counseling ended 6-7-2012