Corrie: Thank you and yes, we have promised to be honest and direct from now on. I am guilty of the not following through everytime I postponed sex. I will definitely work on that!

We read Chapter 3 lastnight and both of us are really enjoying our shared reading. H actually had told me that I misunderstood his statement about the therapy. He has every intention of continuing his sessions, as do I.

My prior posts may have sounded like I didn't take much responsibility, but believe me, that was never the case! I have tons of work to do on myself - I just posted what was burdening my mind! Some may not understand this or agree with it, but I really needed H to acknowledge *our* problem before I felt like I could put much effort into wanting to improve *our* sexual relationship. Going through the third chapter, there were so many categories I fit into that were possibly causing my low desire. Anyway, I have every intention of killing my sexual demons... that's the hard work part

Michele: Thank you so much for your comments! I agree I was thinking about my username yesterday actually! I think I must have been an LD-wannabe!? LOL *sigh* I was so confused. Thank goodness I found your website before giving up.

Honeypot: Yes, this is our fresh start for sure! I have etched your consistency tip in my brain - and will try to always keep it in mind.

Thank you to all who participated in this thread. I will pop in and keep you posted!

{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}

Pam