i don't understand why FIL is involved you your marital financials? he won't be able to be unbiased.

i would advise him that your L will be handling things for you, should it come up again.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing