You wish you were stronger?? Um, please look at what you just said a couple sentences before. 6 months of no contact? And never once you asked him to come back or rethink his decision? That is some of the most amazing strength I have ever seen!!

I've been wondering about you and despite what your H has decided you seem to be pretty ok. I have no idea about contacting him at this point. Perhaps making him do the work and making the first move to progress things could still spark something in him that he may really be making the wrong decision. Who knows... I'm so sorry!!

Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.