i agree.. being calm comes from within. acceptance with no expectations. i have accepted my sitch and i feel good. the best i have felt in a loooonnnnggg time. i got served on monday. you know what? it doesnt matter. i am free to make my own choices and be the me i have always wanted to. it probably wont be with her and i am ok with that. my kids will see it. i will see it.
stop your games broken. they will end up ruining everything. be you. the real you. the changes you have made are for you, not her. if it works, great! it shouldnt matter. you need to save yourself before you can save your marriage. it might not happen. unil you come to terms with that, you will push her away.
