She's been seeing someone. She says they're just friends. But I know the connection is there. A big arguement happened. W ran over my foot with car while leaving. She called police so that she wouldn't get charged with hit & run. Police charged me since I try to stop her from leaving. W then picked up D from daycare without me knowing. I went to pick her up and she wasn't there. W or FIL wouldn't answer the phone. I was in a panic. Finally found out D was with W. W filed an order of protection against me. Saying I was dangerous. I am now talking to a lawyer tomorrow. W stated that I was a danger to my D. I have lost all respect for W. We have had our bad arguements and today was one of them but I have never physically hurt anyone or threatened to do so.
I am so sorry. I've been told by several people here to wait until your emotions settle down before you make any decisions. I think this would very much apply to you too. You've been put in a very difficult situation and I do think it's very smart for you to talk to a L tomorrow.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
Thanks j. I am ready for this to be over. I can honestly say that I did everything I could. FIL wanted to sit down and go over financial things today. I didn't think that was a good idea since everyones emotions would be running on overdrive. So I have a feeling they filed already today.
Also, in the order of protection W stated I was a danger to D. But yet they have already contacted me to see if I wanted to see her tonight. ????
Thanks V. Foots fine. I'm a pretty tough guy. Outside and inside now. Never would have even thought about calling police on W. That's why she called them just in case I was going to call them on her for hit and run. And now all this. W was making sure she wouldn't get in trouble.
Off to see L. I just can't believe that STBXW has an order of protection against me and that i cant go to my house. Waking up and realizing what is really going on. I need to stay focused and take care of business now. Get the order of protection removed(not that I want to talk to her), get time set up to be with D on regular basis, proceed with divorce and get this woman away from me. The bad thing is that I am still going to have to be in contact with her after all of this when we have to take care of D. She doesn't realize that. I don't want to be married to someone that says I am a danger to my D. Never have been. Never will. D is the most important thing to me.
Talked to L. Feel confident with him. Sent an email to W through my brother(I can't contact her directly) regarding visitation with D. Now I just have to wait and see what happens. I am protecting myself and looking out for the interest of D.
Well she filed and and now I am just waiting to get them. Fear of the unknown is overwhelming me right now. Didn't get to see D yesterday and don't know when I will. I am just hoping she isn't trying to take her away from me. That is what is scaring me right now. She can take everything else. Just let me see my D. We have emailed her to try to set up a visitation schedule but no response yet.
