No More LRT, but slow progress

[pookie69]

I know. I went weeks on this board basically talking to myself and a few other people. Now I am getting the big guns out to help me. I can't afford to waste it.

My best friend tells me that I need "unconditional surrender" from the W. How will I know she is done with OM if I don't ask? Do I wait until she comes to me and tells me?

I am too generous. It goes way beyond the W. I have always been the type to help others financially. It is going to be hard to not jump in and "rescue" the W. She might not even ask me for assistance.

The weakness/sucker in me thinks this is all bad timing. Am I an A-hole if I lay it out now?

How do you raise your kids?

There are consequences for crap behaviour.

Support them to help themselves to see that.

Don't rescue, lead instead.

Detach lovingly.

Don't ask, don't tell.

Actions are louder than words.

Cheers.