Oh Brit I think we had our wires crossed! Nothing new in the land of confusion
I left after work to go get groceries. Within 10 minutes I had a call and frantic text from STBX - "Are you going to be back for the realtor??" I waited a bit and replied "yes".
STBX tried to make small talk when I got back about the groceries. I'd bought a new thing of mayo and he said "Oh, I already got some, you can use mine" then offered to pay me for half of the large bottle of our favorite olive oil (it's not cheap - one of my few indulgences!). I said maybe he should just get his own bottle and then we wouldn't have to figure out splitting up the bottle once we moved out. I may be misreading but there seemed to be a little sadness in his face when he replied "You can just have it."
Realtor is coming in a few. Going to hit the gym tonight later!! And start working on my next painting, I think. It's a huge canvas that I want to hang over my bed. I never got to hang the painting I last finished in the house and it won't really fit in for staging (kinda looks like a kid did it! haha).