My solution was stop with the "more more more". So far, it hasn't lead to a re-engagement from her (in that department). I need to tell her how I feel without pressuring her. That will be a bit of a tight-rope and I'm nervous about that. I should probably just say that to her.
I think you should. I think you should make it VERY clear this is NOT an attack of any sort, and this is not to make her feel bad. Just you talking to your (best?) friend.
One other thing...I would and still do show more than simple affection, like squeeze her butt or other things, kiss her neck, but I also do not allow myself to think that it will lead to anything else later that night.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
