W just called me and told me she quit/got fired from her job. It was a bad situation. She was being taken advantage of and pushed back. Boss was XW of sister's H. Joys of working with family/near-family.
So now W is job hunting, which should be short with her established clientele. She just needs to find a new salon. I am a natural protector/provider. This is going to be tough for me. I recently got a $20,000/yr promotion. Helping the W financially wouldn't affect me at all. This is going to be a tough one.
This is good news / bad news.
Now that removes the building and the older lady.
Let her now find a new job. And do not attempt to help. Allow her to come to you.
No hugging or any of that.
If she asks for help. Then help her with honesty and advice. Nothing else.
If she sits around and does nothing.
Then you push her to get back out there.
She will see your not afraid as she thinks you are.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
