W just called me and told me she quit/got fired from her job. It was a bad situation. She was being taken advantage of and pushed back. Boss was XW of sister's H. Joys of working with family/near-family.
So now W is job hunting, which should be short with her established clientele. She just needs to find a new salon. I am a natural protector/provider. This is going to be tough for me. I recently got a $20,000/yr promotion. Helping the W financially wouldn't affect me at all. This is going to be a tough one.
Regarding the letting myself go.... I worked out like a madman. I changed my diet completely. I lost almost 30 lbs. I fit into clothes I haven't worn in almost 10 years. I bought a ton of new clothes. I have style again. I have gotten numerous compliments.
My clothes are new and in style again. People at work actually refer to me as toned and healthy. I only wear "nice" t-shirts when I am out instead of my old supply of t-shirts I got for free from work.
I won the battle against letting myself go.
M-40 W-33 D3, D4, SD13 T 9 YEARS M 5 YEARS ILYBINILWY APRIL 2012
