Sorry - I should clarify, I'm working at home today, so it wasn't unusual for him to come into the home office.

I see your point about the futon. Cheryl and I had talked about ways to invite him back into the bed with no strings attached but after he moved forward on having me served and setting up the house sale I didn't feel like that would be healthy or safe for me, so I didn't do it.

But to answer your initial question . . . I don't see anything going on that would make me want to come back for an R right now frown Thanks for checking in, Brit.